Posts Tagged ‘#Emotions’

We live in a world where expressing our real thoughts and feelings doesn’t seem to be a good idea because most of the times, your problems end up being just another joke to crack for heartless people and this is the reason why “All the glitters is not gold” term seems to be realistic to me.

 

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In modern world, where social pressure is increasing day by day and everyone wants to make and show their life so perfect to the world as if God has exceptionally crafted it to perfection and this is the reason why, we can see people breaking from each other and there’s a big communication gap in between the closest of friends who once were the beats of each others’ hearts. We have lost in the artificial world of perfection so much that we are least interested in sharing our problems with anyone and end up sharing the best of our moments on every possible social networking platforms we can. But somewhere deep inside in our heart, when we ask ourselves that are we really happy? Then, the answer is bound to be a big NO (Try it if you don’t believe me) and this is the sour truth of what exactly is happening around us at the moment.

Even I had a person in my life that was everything to me. There was a time, when we use to share smallest of things with each other. Distance was never a problem, such strong was our bond. I still remember all the fun we use to have together and how exciting our conversations use to get by every passing second. But as we know, every purple patch is bound to have obstacles in it maybe to test how unbreakable you relationship is (Well, at least some say so!). Even we had such a phase, sometimes I was the reason behind the damage and the other way around and now the situation is so worse, that we are back from where it all started – Yes, we are strangers again!

The people who were so addicted to each, who were there in each others’ good and tough times have actually decided to cut off from each other even without thinking twice before they do so. Maybe the degree of supremacy is ruling our brains so much that nobody wants to be mature and back out to take a desired step in order to save the relation.

I act as if I don’t care and so does the other person, I frequently share my happiness to the world because I fear of losing people around me now (Admit it, no one loves to be around a sad frustrated soul!) I have no clue what exactly displaying my life as ‘Perfect’ to the world will benefit me but I still do it to divert my attention from this nightmare and pretend as if I don’t need that person and I can live my life without him/her without any problems but in between this hullabaloo of life, whenever I ask myself that am I really what I’m trying to pretend the world? Don’t I really need that person that I’m happy to ignore him/her? Don’t I care about him/her? My heart doesn’t even take a moment to make me realize that how much I really care about that person and still feel the same love and affection towards him/her but my evil mind instantly battles with my heart and make me realize that if you back out now, you might be titled as a ‘Coward’ or ‘Loser’ by the world and I immediately calm down myself and I end up doing nothing eventually.

The motive behind this story is that there will be times when you need to make choices however difficult they are according to your priorities. In my case, I need to conduct a self-examination that do I need World – who will celebrate in my good times but can’t assure to be with me in my bad times or do I need that person – who was there in my good as well as bad times!

I have made up my mind; I need that person who has always valued my opinions because I care for him/her. Fights are bound to happen in every relationship but it all depends on how maturely you handle them and how badly you are willing to save your relation. So ask yourself whenever you’re in between some conundrum and listen to what your heart says because your mind can fool you but your heart won’t – This is the key behind the real successful life instead of what we actually end up pretending!

This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.

Falling in love is one of the most eventful, pleasing and frightening (at times) thing you could ever do.

When you’re in love with someone, it’s hard to even imagine how you lived without him/her. Of course, you were alive before you met this person, but you really didn’t start “living” until the two of you met!

I still remember when I first fell in love with that someone special, it was a very out of the world feeling, as I never-ever imagined falling in true love till the moment I saw her. I specifically remember the transition from when I liked her to when I began to love her.

She went from being someone who made me smile to being the greatest catalyst of the happiness and joy in my life. She went from a cute & charming girl I met to the most beautiful girl on the earth I know. She went from my crush to the love of my life!

Everyone experiences love differently, and at different times. Even the meaning of love is extremely instinctive, but I say for certain that anyone who has experience d it knows it’s the best feeling ever for sure.

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After lot of analyzing, I’ve managed to create a bunch of things you will experience when you’re in love with the right someone!

  • The Best Part Of The Day

As Childish Gambino said, “When I’m alone, I’d rather be with you.” Seeing a glimpse of her is always the highlight of my day. If you really love someone, you never get bored or tired of him/her. No matter how great your day might be going, your special person will make it even more better.

  • The First Person You Think Of Everytime

Your love will be the first person you’ll think about when you wake up and the last person you think about before you go to bed. When something good happens, this is the first person you want to tell & similarly, when something bad happens, start looking for the support of this person.

  • Sacrificing Your Happiness For Your Partner’s Happiness

As they say, Love is Selfless & I started believing in this fact after meeting her. I was the most important in my life before she made her an adorable appearance in my life! I became a lot more responsible & serious person after her entry. Fulfilling her needs makes me happy & I always keep trying to do the same into some way or other.

  • You Want Think  Twice Before Doing Anything (Yes Any Damn Thing) For Her

Yes, the addiction of love hypnotizes you so immensely that you won’t mind sacrificing your life for her. The only thing a passionate lover needs is happiness and smile on his/her partner’s million-dollar face!

  • You Become A Lot More Comfortable To Publicize Your Feelings

I personally telling the world I am in love (don’t know why!) But I don’t find anything prejudiced it. If you love someone, then there’s no point in holding it back. Show the world how to love someone fearlessly & I feel this is an art which only courageous people (like me) attempt to do!

  • You Even Start Loving Imperfections

To be honest, I’m in love with one of the most beautiful girl in the world (many of them who know agree with this fact) but as we know no one on this planet is born perfect, everyone has some or other imperfection. Yes she too has many (Looks-wise, she is exemplary. I’m talking about her mood here which changes every now & then!). Although I take her ‘moody’ imperfections as unique and ability and yes, I love them too! Always remember if you love someone, learn to love his/her faults too. This will bring laurels to your relationship!

  • You Start Pretending Future

Another noticeable change you will feel in your fantasy world after falling in love is that your mind will automatically start planning long-term, right from what you will wear on your marriage day to what will be the names of your children! It sounds funny, but it does happen in every second relationship. But I personally feel, planning beyond limits will rise the amount of expectations and if they won’t be fulfilled, cracks begin to develop in a relationship and eventually, everyone knows what happens. So, it’s better to live the priceless present with your love rather than wasting time in constructing the wobbly future.

  • You Become A Lot More Responsive Person Than What You Were Before

Yes, love has the ability to change a person in many ways. You will find a drastic change in your mindset, the way you pursue things & also in your personality sometimes. You always try to become a presentable and responsible person  for become that ideal someone you love & adore more than your life. This is one of those rare advantage of falling in love!

  • Your Feelings Become Firm And Strong

If you love someone unconditionally, naturally your feelings will have no bounds or barriers. When you know whom you love, then you don’t care about what world will think or comment on it, you just have to go all guns blazing in love!

  • Your Love Is Your Support System

Your love automatically becomes your best friend, yes this happens in almost every relationship. Because the only person you feel need to share your happiness & worries is the person whom you’re in love with because your he/she is the only one who can give you the best advice or suggestion I fell!

So this was a short ride through the life of lovers. Love is a beautiful feeling until it transforms into a burden of expectations. Everyone should fall in love & experience it but with care because broken hearts & lost trust cannot be won back as much efforts you’ll do. So always put efforts to transform your love story into a fairy-tale rather than a nightmare!